Obituaries for Ray & Martha's Funeral Home

April 7, 2025

April 7, 2025

Bruce Reid Poafpybitty, Sr.

Bruce Reid Poafpybitty, Sr. of Stecker was known as "Bator" to his many friends and

called "Uncle Bud" by his nieces and nephews and called "Butterball" by family. After a

lengthy illness, he passed from this life to his eternal heavenly home on April 7, 2025, at his home with his family by his side. Bruce, 81 years, was...

April 5, 2025

In Loving Memory of Georgia Cornwell

1948-2025

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Georgia Cornwell, who left this world peacefully on April 5, 2025, at the age of 77. Surrounded by love, she departed with grace, leaving behind a legacy of kindness and unwavering devotion to those she held dear.

Born in Anadarko, OK, Georgia lived a life marked by compassion...

April 3, 2025

Frank D. Lucus, 82, of Roosevelt, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully surrounded by family on April 3, 2025. He was born on May 25, 1942, to Trinkle Link and Clara Elizabeth (Shackleford) Lucus in Indiahoma, Oklahoma.

Frank grew up and attended school in Alfalfa, graduating from Alfalfa High School in 1960. On August 11, 1962, he married the love of his life,...

April 2, 2025

Captain (USMC) Robert William Poolaw Sr. also known as "Corky" by family and friends, passed from this earth after a brief illness on Wednesday, April 2, 2025, at the age of 86 in his home in Norman, OK surrounded by family. He was born on July 17, 1938, at the Kiowa Indian Hospital in Lawton, Oklahoma to Horace and Winnie...

April 1, 2025

Jimmy Lee Niece passed away on April 1, 2025, in Carnegie, OK. He was born on March 5, 1960, to J.H. & Katherine Lorene (Holdge) Niece, in Fort Cobb, OK. Jimmy grew up and attended school in Fort Cobb, OK. He worked for about 36 years in seismograph. Jimmy then worked for the City of Fort Cobb as the Waste...

March 31, 2025

Patricia Ruth Tsonetokoy-Bointy " Patty Girl", 83, passed away peacefully at her home in Fort Cobb, Oklahoma, surrounded by her husband and family. June 15th, 1941, she was born in Carnegie, Oklahoma, to Fred "Buster" and Grace Tahlo-Lonebear Tsonetokoy. When she was a young girl, her mother's sister Jeanette and her husband Conrad Maunsape asked to raise her. She grew...

March 29, 2025

Jessica Nicole Ramirez, 34, of Omaha, Nebraska, passed away unexpectedly on March 29, 2025, from complications following a seizure. Jessy was born on August 22, 1990, in Omaha, Nebraska, to John Peter Ramirez and Julie Ann (Smith) Frisby. Jessy grew up and attended school in Bellevue, Nebraska, graduating from Bellevue West High School in 2008. She attended University of Nebraska...

March 27, 2025

Kyle David Dobbs (1975-2025)

Kyle David Dobbs, 49, of Cordell, Oklahoma, passed away on March 27th, 2025. He was born on August 27, 1975 in Rocky , Oklahoma to David and Damaris Dobbs . Kyle was born and raised in Rocky, OK, where he went on many childhood adventures with his siblings and cousins. In 1987, he moved to

Riverside, California,...

March 27, 2025

Freddie Bruce Steenbergen

Fred was born on February 20th, 1931. He was born on the family farm outside of Gracemont. His parents were Freeman and Lula Mae (Pet) Steenbergen. They lived in Gracemont a couple of years then moved to a farm in Spring Creek. They lived there for eight years. In Spring Creek, he remembered there being the Baptist Church,...

March 26, 2025

Wanda Jean Shaw was born on August 22, 1941, to Ervin "EA" Setzer and Carolyn (Hansen) Setzer. Wanda passed away on March 26, 2025, at the Binger Nursing Home at 3:48 am after being sick for a while. Wanda grew up on the family farm on the Washita - Caddo Country Line North of 152 State Highway on the west...

March 24, 2025

Gail Jean Anderson, born on August 11, 1949, in Worden, Illinois, she passed away peacefully on March 24, 2025, surrounded by her cherished family. She was a beloved mother, grandmother, sister, and friend who touched the lives of everyone she met.

Gail was the proud mother of Doug Jarden and his wife Brenda, along with their children Doug Tollison and Ashley...

March 24, 2025

Dena Fay Pitt Kinder, 99, of Carnegie, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on March 24, 2025. She was born on the family farm in Cowden, Oklahoma on June 2, 1925, to William Wheeler and Willie Belle (King) Pitt. Dena Fay was one of six children. She attended Cowden High School, graduating in 1942. Dena Fay married Rudy Kinder on December 24,...

March 23, 2025

Charles Hutchinson JR., 84, of Carnegie, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on March 23, 2025. He was born on March 3, 1941, in Conco, Oklahoma, to Charles Sr. and Louise (Tahome) Hutchinson. Charles grew up and attended school in Carnegie, graduating from Carnegie High School in 1959. He enlisted in the United States Army Reserve on October 5, 1962, he served...

March 23, 2025

Michael Lee Bryant, 70, of Anadarko, Oklahoma, passed away on March 23, 2025, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. He was born on May 13, 1954, to Andrew M. and Hazel L. (Harrington) Bryant in Casa Grande, Arizona. Michael grew up and attended school in Casa Grande. He moved to Oklahoma in the 1970's. Michael worked at Glen Haven Retirement Village in...

March 23, 2025

Craven "Wilford" McLemore, 89, passed away on Sunday, March 23rd, 2025, at his residence. Wilford was born to Crave and Delphia (Williams) McLemore on July 27, 1935, in Gracemont, Oklahoma. He attended school in Gracemont, Oklahoma. Wilford was united in marriage to Betty Jo Hendrix on December 12, 1953, in Gracemont, OK. Wilford and Betty moved to Hobbs, New Mexico....

March 22, 2025

Darrell Monroe McCurdy, of Hobart, Oklahoma, passed away at home on Saturday, March 22, 2025. He was born on October 23, 1942, as the youngest of nine to Ida Mae Maxwell and Samuel M. McCurdy, in Carnegie, Oklahoma. Darrell grew up in Gotebo while delivering papers and picking cotton, before graduating from Gotebo High School in 1960. He then worked...

March 21, 2025

Donnie Jay Squires, 78, of Hobart, Oklahoma, passed away unexpectedly on March 21, 2025, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. He was born on September 4, 1946, to Everett Earl and Mable (Gore) Squires in Clinton, Oklahoma. He attended and graduated from Taloga High School in 1965. Donnie met the love of his life, Connie Hestand, they were united in marriage on...

March 20, 2025

Martha Nell "Marti" (Xó:gútqómà) Kauley Poolaw

Martha Nell "Marti" (Xó:gútqómà "Yellow Stone Woman") Kauley Poolaw, 85, was born in her family home in Carnegie, OK. She was an enrolled member of the Kiowa Tribe.

She graduated from Carnegie High School in 1958 and earned a bachelor's degree from the University of Science and Arts of Oklahoma in Chickasha, OK, in 1978....

March 19, 2025

Daisy Mae Swift-Sage entered eternal rest on March 19, 2025. Surrounded by family and close friends as she was called home to the Lord, she maintained the signature grace, tenacity, and effervescence for which she was known among her loved ones throughout a courageous and lengthy battle with illness.

Daisy was born on August 7, 1992, at the Lawton Indian...