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Ella Rose Jay

March 13, 1945 — June 15, 2018

Ella Rose Jay passed away on June 15, 2018 at her home in Ft. Cobb, Oklahoma with her loving family by her side. Ella Rose was born March 13, 1945 in Lawton, Oklahoma to Matthew and Clara Silverhorn Tofpi.

Ella Rose attended school in Carnegie graduating with the Class of 1963. She married Bobby Jay March 22, 1963 in Anadarko, Oklahoma. Ella Rose was a member of the Kiowa Tribe of Oklahoma and Cedar Creek United Methodist Church in Carnegie, Oklahoma. She worked as a Headstart Teacher for Washita Valley Headstart for many years.

Ella Rose is survived by four daughters:
Cheryl Jay and companion Vincent Shomo of Ft. Cobb, Oklahoma
Claudine Yvonne Moran and husband Monte of Bixby, Oklahoma
Barbara Lei Tana Jay Tovar of Wichita Falls, Texas
Donis Michele Tiger and husband Brian of Lawton, Oklahoma

Eleven Grandchildren:
Bobbie Moran & companion Johnny Mahsetky, of Mustang, Oklahoma, Amber Jay of Ft. Cobb, Oklahoma, Skye Jay of Killeen, Texas, Chalemah Jay of Ft. Cobb, Oklahoma, Maggie Jones of Japan, Aimee Wetselline & companion Andrew LookingGlass of Ft. Cobb, Ok., Alanis Jones of Wichita Falls, Texas, Kylei Jay of Lawton, Ok., Keilee Jay of Lawton, Ok., Ashley Mousseaux of Killeen, Texas and her only Grandson, Nigel Jay of Ft. Cobb, Oklahoma.

Great Grandchildren: Parker Mahsetky, Jaylen Swift, Kaleb Anquoe, Aubrey Anquoe, Elijah Whitaker,
Alexis Getlin, Ashtyn Getlin, John Talhoc Jr., Avalon Thompson, Hendrix Wetselline Lookinglass,
Kai'Manie Salas.

Brothers: Donald Tofpi & wife Evelyn, Carnegie, Ok.,
James Tofpi & wife Lavonne of Chickasha, Ok.
Jerry Silverhorn & wife Angela of Carnegie, Ok.

Sisters: Vickie Boettger & husband William Sr., of Carnegie, Oklahoma
Judy Nelson of Anadarko Ok.
Sherry Motah of Carnegie, Ok.

She is also survived by her furry family member, Brutus Nesahkluah and her grand dogs, Carly and Cooper Moran.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Bobby Jay, her parents, two brothers Larry Tofpi and Terry Silverhorn, One sister Phyllis Daniels. Her grandparents James Silverhorn, & Clara Rose Silverhorn and paternal grandparents, Carl Tofpi and Jenny Ella Tofpi.
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